And they hate Capitalism and Christianity. They're still fighting the Cold War, cheering on Russia and China.
I understand what you're saying and agree full-heartedly with your statement "We all need to take a deep breath and start acting like god damn adults again" but that train left the station about 8 years ago. Thanks to Obama and the extreme Liberalism of the Democrat Party, those in power now try to rule and impose their will by executive order and judicial fiat while waving a stiff middle finger salute to the opposition.
You can thank Barrack Obama, Harry Reid, and Nancy Pelosi for that, not Donald Trump. Trump is the Conservative's middle finger in return. Learn to live with it for the next 8 years and while you're at it thank Obama and the extreme Left for blazing the trail towards populist American Totalitarism. I didn't vote for him but Trump is the other swing of the pendulum.